luke rules!

1. follow the platinum rule (do unto others, wherever possible, as they would want to be done to them) where applicable and the golden rule (do unto others as you would have them do unto you) where applicable
2. oppressors do not deserve mandatory compassion from the oppressed; this is an individual's choice
3. open communication is key for a healthy relationship of any kind
4. tell people you love them while they're still here
5. Black Lives Matter