there are a lot of people who are unhappy (some deeper than others) so aside from the myriad of reasons why they’d choose to be *-phobic, they also hate to see other people actively living in happiness with freedoms against the systems that trap us. they may just be attempts but they’re doing it.
and that resentment comes out in their bigotry. that’s not to say pity them—they’re still bigots—but it’s something i’ve noticed. how are you gonna wanna destroy a group of people and still be unhappy afterwards? focus on YOU!
these systems are here to break ALL of us down. if you see someone catching glimpses of joy, you should be happy for them and afford yourself the belief that you can catch some joy too.
community is a doing word, not a slogan.